Episode 182 - Authority and compliance, parenting ethics roundtable

http://www.nytimes.com/2013/04/19/nyregion/babys-latest-going-diaperless-at-home-or-even-in-the-park.html

Nonviolent communication, or nvc
http://happinesscounseling.com/NVC_Intro.pdf
http://www.cnvc.org/Training/feelings-inventory
http://www.cnvc.org/Training/needs-inventory
http://www.wikihow.com/Practice-Nonviolent-Communication
http://www.amazon.com/Nonviolent-Communication-Language-Marshall-Rosenberg/dp/1892005034/
The Basics of Non Violent Communication 1.1
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=M-129JLTjkQ

It can be challenging to learn a language of life and not fall back on past parenting scripts

An ethics based on needs, empathy, and compassionate connection can foster a free society

3-week nvc teleconference - http://a-path-with-heart.net

It's key to distinguish actual feelings from moralistic judgments of self and others
http://www.logicallearning.net/ResponsibilityForFeelings.mp3 (10min clip by Rosenberg)

http://wordsthatwork.us/

Conflict happens on the level of strategies, not needs (which are universal)

http://happinesscounseling.com/happiness-resources/

bumper music "I Love Being A Parent" by Jeff Foxworthy
http://www.amazon.com/Love-Being-Parent-Album-Version/dp/B001B85R5S
and
"Parents Just Don't Understand" by DJ Jazzy Jeff & The Fresh Prince
https://itunes.apple.com/us/album/hes-the-dj-im-the-rapper/id306676844