Some points of light in the mainstream...
Breaking Free by Nathaniel Branden
1. Did your parents deal with you fairly and justly? Did your parents resort to threats in order to control your behavior--either threats of immediate punitive action on their part, or threats in terms of long-range consequences for your life, or threats of supernatural punishments, such as going to hell? Were you praised when you performed well? Or merely criticized when you performed badly? Were your parents willing to admit it when they were wrong? Or was it against their policy to concede that they were wrong?
2. Did your parents' behavior and manner of dealing with you tend to produce guilt in you?
3. Did your parents' behavior and manner of dealing with you tend to produce fear in you?
4. Did your parents project that it was desirable for you to think well of yourself, to have self-esteem? Or were you cautioned against valuing yourself, and encouraged to be humble?
5. Did your parents encourage you in the direction of having a healthy affirmative attitude toward sex and toward your own body? Or a negative attitude? Or neither?
I invite you to participate in an eight-week therapy group of at least five persons (each weekly session will be 1.5hrs)--please email me at firstname.lastname@example.org, and we'll fine-tune the program. Here is the information page:
bumper music "Nocturne #2 in E flat, Op. 9" by Frederic Chopin
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