The Body Keeps the Score: Brain, Mind, and Body in the Healing of Trauma by Bessel van der Kolk, M.D.
http://www.amazon.com/The-Body-Keeps-Score-Healing/dp/0670785938
Power Under: Trauma And Nonviolent Social Change by Steven Wineman
http://www.traumaandnonviolence.com
some counters to "resource depletion" arguments...
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Abundance:_The_Future_Is_Better_Than_You_Think
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/The_Ultimate_Resource
Guard Your Family Against a Major Unseen Stressor
A free online self-improvement course by psychotherapist Peter Gerlach
http://sfhelp.org
Was your childhood normal (healthy)? How do you know?
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qxY0guDvS-s
Were you traumatized as a child? How do you know?
http://youtu.be/Zo1RBWNT5Ts
Are you an EFFECTIVE parent? Were your parents effective?
http://youtu.be/OHf3J4P-6Fg
Are you distorting reality? How do you know?
http://youtu.be/NeYpFER6iyA
What is a "Grown Wounded Child" (GWC)?
http://youtu.be/G8INyxX6VNI
bumper music “Instrumental - Gayatri Mantra (Flute,Sitar & Santoor)”
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=X6czBEQi73c